An instant can change everything. This morning near the end of my jog, a car made an illegal turn coming around a parked bus and almost took me out. Wow! That left me shaking. But after I collected myself, I pondered the what ifs? Did I say goodbye to my daughter with love and kindness this am as she headed to school? Did I go to bed laughing as my college sorority sisters shared pictures that should have been burned long ago because we looked so ridiculous. The answer was yes to both. It made me happy. Life is fleeting and it can change dramatically in a moment. The choice is ours how to spend each moment. Food for thought.